Delhi is a happening place. Even if I am very choosy in finalizing my appointments, I remain too busy to be creative. But this was something I could not avoid. That’s how seeing Vikram Seth lives in conversation with Sam Miller on 03rd Feb 2011, I could not avoid even being back to back with my engagements and I had to rush from a seminar on “Deepening Democracy” organized by one of my old friend Dr D K Giri at Constitution club, New Delhi. These two programs were contradictory but I decided to do it this time.
I was in time for the program to be with famous Indian author Vikram Seth.
However, I could not get time to sit and write about it, it got delayed and only today i.e. on 15th February 2011, on my marriage anniversary day I am trying to finalize it.
Writers can be counted on fingers in this country. Vikram Seth is one of the most famous among others, writer of “Suitable Boy”, working on “Suitable Girl”. I was pleased to attend this live conversation and that too along with my only wife Dr Vidya and daughter Janet.
I enjoyed every bit of this intellectual amalgamation. Except, the ignorance of youth of this country, conversation was live, realistic, frank and visionary. Sam was drinking wine and the same was being done by Vikram in front of the class audience at Indo-French cultural Centre, Lodi Road, New Delhi. It was not a dream but reality.
Class creates its own space in a different world where the perceptions of normal humans in society do not touch. Unfortunately this space is experienced by few at few of the time at few of the places in this country.
Few of the important confessions from the mouth of Vikram Seth -
My parents moved to England when I was just a kid. I could not speak regional language. I faced indifferent race.
First language I learned to write is English.
I read books when young, all English books - splendor series book TINTIN, William etc.
Grandmother was a lover of poetry. She will weep at times to put across her points.
Puskin hexamine tetramin – life revolved around them away from normal Indian traditions or cultures.
Could not afford air fare to come back home.
Warmth why inclined to write something or not
I have written play too
Bonfire remains a part of life; I am luck because nobody destroyed my love letters. I dared to do things differently.
It’s an embarrassment of writing anything when parents are alive.
Spent 11 years in Stanford.
Still trying to understand my father. (I think he must read my book on unlearning to understand generations)
Reading Naipaul, in high, cud figure China Tiananmen square
You remembered my sister name, today she is sitting in front of me with my parents. She is also a poetess in her capacity.
Every poet name comes in the last but I do not do the same.
Clever device don’t know what to ask.
My book gives a political outlook.
What upset me? A talk on Metro extension to Greater Noida.
Challenge to do different
Fear of boredom whichever way I am grateful
“Suitable girl” will be on present
We all had terrible time in Jaipur Literary festival because of contradictory aspects of life.
Not interested to write challenges.
It’s great powerful experience to know that my grandfather was a child.
We are all accident of history.
Book is dedicated to Nani
When I was hanging I was working hard (I face similar problems most of the time.)
Revision is important
Talk was real and to the ground level. Not much hypocrisy. Sam Miller asked few relevant and real deep questions which touches the part of excellence. I was satisfied and happy that his life was full of those UNLEARNING lessons I have talked in my book “Unlearn Before U Learn” written I 2005 and published in 2007. I felt myself visionary.
In this world of trivializm in Delhi, it was soothing to be in a company with excellence.
Talk ended with drinks (wine & juices) and mouth watering snacks, chicken tikka etc. Great to dish them with some suffy crowd.